For all the Girls and in this instance, boys as well, that are being bullied online. This post is for all of you.
First off, I had a bad night, and though it's nearly 7am where I am and I haven't slept yet, this is important so I'll keep my eyeballs open long enough to write it.I'm 31 years old, I do not live and die by technology. Sure, it has it's perks but I'm old enough to remember life before the world wide web of punk ass bitches (both guys and gals can be bitches, boys and girls)that hide behind screens, to do their dirty work. Anyone that picks on you online, first of all is a coward.In my day, bullies did their punk shit in person.Looking back there isn't one of them that picked on me that ever became anyone worth knowing.Ignorant trashy bullies will ALWAYS grow up to find out that you reap what you sow. ALWAYS.If you're a shitty person and you end up surrounded by shitty people with just as shitty minds, guess what? Your life becomes a toilet. For the bullies, enjoy the flush bitches because it ALWAYS comes back around.
To the bullied. Two words, "COMMON SENSE!" Use it! Why are you even reading or visiting pages that are putting you down, trashing you or making you feel bad in any way? Facebook? BLOCK THEM! Can't escape, make a new page and keep it private from lil punk bitches.Being picked on by someone's blog, page, emails...whatever. STOP HELPING THEM GET TO YOU by not visiting that shit. I know it's hard to ignore but at least with online bullying YOU CAN IGNORE IT!
I don't give a rats ass if your whole school is reading it, talking about it or talking about you. SCHOOL is just that SCHOOL. It is not your life and it is not your whole world. Use it to get an education and bond with your REAL friends. Nothing more. Do not give into the FALSE belief that life revolves around what happens at school, that shit's over and done with in a blink compared to the rest of your life.
The vast majority of the people getting under your skin will be out of your life a hell of a lot longer then they will be in it. And back to point A. Most of their lives will end up shit anyway, not what you want for yourself. So don't strive to fit in or let them tear you apart. Finish school and get the best education you can so you can use it to make your life awesome. The best revenge on bullies is leaving them in the dust where they belong. I know many of you being bullied online feel like it's following you everywhere you go.
It's on your phone, your tablet your PC, it feels like it's everywhere. It's NOT. More importantly it's within your power to not let online bullying in your life. Stop feeding it. BLOCK, PRIVACY SETTINGS, NEW ACCOUNTS, this is tech world and every one of you under 20 years old knows how to use it and the settings. Use them to your advantage to filter out GARBAGE and the cowards behind the GARBAGE.
YOU ARE MORE THAN WHAT YOUR SCHOOL POPULATION THINKS ABOUT YOU! Hell, if online bullying is terrorizing you TURN THE TECH OFF! Crack open a book while you're at it. Books unlock the mind. They will show you not just the real world outside your tiny little school "life" but amazing fun worlds of any kind you could possibly imagine. Hate some aspect of your life? School? Home? Online? READ A GOOD BOOK! You escape the bullshit and you are self-educating at the same time.
The smarter you are, the stronger you are. Knowledge is power, gain as much as you can and use what you know to get through the harder shit in life. Have a problem? Any problem? The answer is always there, all you have to do is look for it. Tech makes bulling easy, but remember this, tech makes shutting it out just as easy. Punks can talk shit all they want online, do you have to listen to it? NOPE!
If you're already a strong guy or gal with a lick of sense and decency, stick together, when you come across online bullying, speak up for those weaker than you being targeted by the weakest and chicken shittest of them all, online bullies.
Strong Girlz, as always stand together, stick up for one another and look out for each other. Don't add to the stereotypes of bratty ass girls being catty little witches to each other.
GirlzStrong are unstoppable together. Change the views of others by BEING the example. Lead the pack of girlz sticking together, not stabbing each other in the back. The so-called "Man's World" only exists because we ladies started fighting each other instead of FOR each other. Flip the script. It's long over due.
Stand up for another girl today, who knows? She just might be the best friend you ever have.
Later Girlz!
-Jesa
