BULLIED ONLINE

For all the Girls and in this instance, boys as well, that are being bullied online. This post is for all of you.

First off, I had a bad night, and though it's nearly 7am where I am and I haven't slept yet, this is important so I'll keep my eyeballs open long enough to write it.I'm 31 years old, I do not live and die by technology. Sure, it has it's perks but I'm old enough to remember life before the world wide web of punk ass bitches (both guys and gals can be bitches, boys and girls)that hide behind screens, to do their dirty work. Anyone that picks on you online, first of all is a coward. 

In my day, bullies did their punk shit in person.Looking back there isn't one of them that picked on me that ever became anyone worth knowing.Ignorant trashy bullies will ALWAYS grow up to find out that you reap what you sow. ALWAYS.If you're a shitty person and you end up surrounded by shitty people with just as shitty minds, guess what? Your life becomes a toilet. For the bullies, enjoy the flush bitches because it ALWAYS comes back around. 

To the bullied. Two words, "COMMON SENSE!" Use it! Why are you even reading or visiting pages that are putting you down, trashing you or making you feel bad in any way? Facebook? BLOCK THEM! Can't escape, make a new page and keep it private from lil punk bitches.Being picked on by someone's blog, page, emails...whatever. STOP HELPING THEM GET TO YOU by not visiting that shit. I know it's hard to ignore but at least with online bullying YOU CAN IGNORE IT! 

I don't give a rats ass if your whole school is reading it, talking about it or talking about you. SCHOOL is just that SCHOOL. It is not your life and it is not your whole world. Use it to get an education and bond with your REAL friends. Nothing more. Do not give into the FALSE belief that life revolves around what happens at school, that shit's over and done with in a blink compared to the rest of your life. 

The vast majority of the people getting under your skin will be out of your life a hell of a lot longer then they will be in it. And back to point A. Most of their lives will end up shit anyway, not what you want for yourself. So don't strive to fit in or let them tear you apart. Finish school and get the best education you can so you can use it to make your life awesome. The best revenge on bullies is leaving them in the dust where they belong. I know many of you being bullied online feel like it's following you everywhere you go. 

It's on your phone, your tablet your PC, it feels like it's everywhere. It's NOT. More importantly it's within your power to not let online bullying in your life. Stop feeding it. BLOCK, PRIVACY SETTINGS, NEW ACCOUNTS, this is tech world and every one of you under 20 years old knows how to use it and the settings. Use them to your advantage to filter out GARBAGE and the cowards behind the GARBAGE.

YOU ARE MORE THAN WHAT YOUR SCHOOL POPULATION THINKS ABOUT YOU! Hell, if online bullying is terrorizing you TURN THE TECH OFF! Crack open a book while you're at it. Books unlock the mind. They will show you not just the real world outside your tiny little school "life" but amazing fun worlds of any kind you could possibly imagine. Hate some aspect of your life? School? Home? Online? READ A GOOD BOOK! You escape the bullshit and you are self-educating at the same time. 

The smarter you are, the stronger you are. Knowledge is power, gain as much as you can and use what you know to get through the harder shit in life. Have a problem? Any problem? The answer is always there, all you have to do is look for it. Tech makes bulling easy, but remember this, tech makes shutting it out just as easy. Punks can talk shit all they want online, do you have to listen to it? NOPE!

If you're already a strong guy or gal with a lick of sense and decency, stick together, when you come across online bullying, speak up for those weaker than you being targeted by the weakest and chicken shittest of them all, online bullies. 

Strong Girlz, as always stand together, stick up for one another and look out for each other. Don't add to the stereotypes of bratty ass girls being catty little witches to each other. 

GirlzStrong are unstoppable together. Change the views of others by BEING the example. Lead the pack of girlz sticking together, not stabbing each other in the back. The so-called "Man's World" only exists because we ladies started fighting each other instead of FOR each other. Flip the script. It's long over due.

Stand up for another girl today, who knows? She just might be the best friend you ever have. 

Later Girlz!
-Jesa   

"Time to break the silence on injustices against women"

The title of this post should make the intent pretty clear. We as women need to take just a few minutes of our time to break the silence. All over the globe women are being tortured, raped, mutilated and enslaved. The more we shout that "IT IS NOT OKAY!" perhaps the more voices will join in the chant. The more voices there are the louder we get. With women working together to help each other stop these horrors from occurring and punish those that would do them, we can deafen them with our outrage. I for one hope their ears bleed until they die..wishful thinking and all.

So take a minute to raise your voice by checking out this article and then telling a friend or coworker about it. Pass it on!

"Time to break the silence on injustices against women"

Yes..it has been a verrry long time!

I've been gone quite awhile. Primarily because I moved..got flooded for the 2nd time in a year and then proceeded to move about 5 more times over the course of 3 months. Then I had my wisdom teeth pulled, and now I am going on my 4th week with laryngitis. All very exciting, but mostly annoying. I'll be trying to pay a teensy bit more attention here so expect more posts a lot more often.

My First Follower..Was A Spammer!

How exciting it is for a new Blogger to get their first follower? Extremely! Until you realize they are only following you in order to Spam in your comments section. My first follower had the nerve to Spam about meeting "Hot Pakistani Girls." Really? On the GirlzStrong Blog you put up ads that are for sex hotlines? Oddly enough Silent Tears (My one and only follower, feel free to STOP following) added his Spam under the Rape aXe condom Post. I find that strange. If my lonely follower happens to soon disappear I'll consider this post a success.

What Women Want… | BeyondJane

What Women Want… | BeyondJane

An article to give you a laugh and make you smile. Those of you who are often your best friend's free therapist will recognize a lot of these. What women want seems to be the age old question that's never going away. Since men claim to not know what women want I think it's high time we just came right out and told them. So what do women really want? What do YOU want?

Ladies, Buy A Cup of Coffee and Help Fight Human Trafficking! It Doesn't Get Any Easier Than That!

Coffee Shops Fighting Human Trafficking | Bizcovering

Alright, I came across this article and had to share it. There are several coffee shops that are giving big to help stop human trafficking all over the globe. Human trafficking is not just a human rights issue because while children of both sexes are often victims girls and women will always be the most vulnerable. That makes it a GirlStrong issue. So get out there and buy a cup of coffee from the shops listed in the article if you're a caffeine drinker. Or you can join the movement and donate to stop the TRAFFIK Here.

How to Find Volunteer Work in Your Home Town | Socyberty

How to Find Volunteer Work in Your Home Town | Socyberty


Okay girls, I'm sharing this link to give you a heads up of how and where you can find volunteer opportunities near where you live. The options are endless and it IS about helping others but it also gives you free job experience that looks great on a resume. This can really come in handy if you're considering a career change. Volunteer to get your feet wet in a new industry. Or make your joy's a part time activity that helps others. Work with animals, ocean life or out in the national and state parks.